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March 2010

Welcome to the March issue of Love Your Job. I've got 2 articles this month that I think you should find interesting: 'What does career satisfaction mean to you' and 'Confessions of an introvert'.

I'm always busy, and February has been even more busy than usual. My 3rd book went on sale on 15th February and I did a couple of linked radio interviews including recording a couple of podcasts for The Guardian. This has resulted in me being asked to participate in an online Q&A session with Guardian Careers, more details below.

On a personal note, in the past 5 weeks I've lost just over a stone in weight and I've been doing some killer workouts. As you will have gathered over the months, I am fully focused on my goal, and have now gone 20 weeks without chocolate, paying out for my personal trainer Ben Carpenter helps with my motivation but i'm also focused on my long term goal, and make sure that for almost all my time I focus on where I want to go and visualise my end goal. Just like my job search clients need to do, focus on getting the job and make sure the actions they take help them to achieve their goal of a new great job and to monitor progress. On the weeks I haven't lost weight I've reviewed my eating and exercise plan and made changes, just like job search clients need to review CV, covering letter, interview skills etc. I've now lost 52lb since I met Ben and 102lb from my fattest. I've now bought some new clothes!

I'm keeping track of where my clients come from and over 55% of clients are from London and the South East. I'm also working with more younger clients, helping them make the right choices for A levels and university. It really is a great time to seek out professional help if the young person is ready and wants to do this.

 

 
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It can take time to reach your goal, so break it down into baby steps and each baby step will get you one step closer to your goal.

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Article 1: What does career satisfaction mean to you?

You want to love your job, you want to have career satisfaction, but have you ever taken the time to think about what career satisfaction means to you? This article outlines the main reasons why people feel satisfied with their job. So read through each of these 8 areas, and decide if they are being met in your job (or not).

Do you need mentally challenging work?

Some people like to daydream on the job and not be bothered with mental challenge - they work to pay the bills while their out of work life gives them the satisfaction they need. Glen is a postman and also plays in a couple of folk bands. He can't make enough money to survive through music, he's tried it, so the delivery work pays the bills and gives him the time to practice and compose. Most people, however, crave some intellectual stimulation during their working day. They seek challenge but it should be just enough so that they can meet it successfully, too much challenge can be stressful.

Does your work need to be personally interesting?

Our interests differ - what do you prefer? Being outside and working on practical tasks? Problem solving? Being part of a team? If someone is interested in the arts, do they want to work for an arts organisation or do they want to keep work separate? Lisa loved embroidery, and spends most evenings on this, but a job in an embroidery shop was not as fulfilling as she had hoped, and resulted in her not wanting to do more of the same in the evenings.

What sort of physical demands is right for you?

Vicki is so interested in health and fitness that a job as a personal trainer and running aerobic exercise classes was perfect for her. Dan loves working on a farm, being outside and doing heavy work keeps him fit and he would hate to be in an office job. However, Derek, whose work involved a lot of international travel, found that flying across continents, dealing with the time difference and waiting at airports was too stressful and he wanted to be able to concentrate on the job, rather than to have to deal with the stress of travel.

Do you want your work to be seen as valuable?

Do you need to feel that you are doing a worthwhile job and making a difference? Is it important what other people think of your job and the organisation you work for? Denise recognised that certain consulting assignments did not give her a feeling of making a difference so she decided to concentrate on working with individuals where she got immediate feedback from her clients on the value of her work.

How important are colleagues to you?

Do you need to work with people that you get on with and who are team players, willing to help out and give you recognition and support? Or does working with "difficult" people give you some sort of challenge? Ben hadn't realised the importance of this till be started working with moaners and gripers. A change of job led to a real team spirit and a joy in going to work each day.

Does your work need to be consistent with your values? 

Our values are the guiding principles that drive our behaviour. If we have a life in line with our values we are likely to experience greater satisfaction. When our values are incongruent with our career it can lead to stress and discomfort. Values include Challenge, Friendship, Working with others, Recognition, Communication, Being expert, Independence, Making decisions and Excitement. To what extent does your job allow you to meet your top values?

Will money motivate me?

I've spoken with many people who think that a high salary is the most important element of job satisfaction, as long as they are getting highly paid, they think they can put up with anything. However, after a few years, many decide that money isn't everything, and, like Fi, are willing to take a substantial pay cut if other aspects of career satisfaction are met. Is money the main motivator for you? Linked to this is feeling that you are paid fairly for the work you do. If a similar sort of work is paid at a higher rate elsewhere you may decide to move on as you feel undervalued.

Do you need the company to meet your career plans?

Are you seeking to gain greater technical expertise, the opportunity to work flexible hours or an opportunity for promotion into management? Some people hope that the company will manage their career and give them the opportunities they seek, other people want to take personal responsibility. Do you want to manage your own career through a number of different companies or to develop within your current organisation? Get it wrong and you could be frustrated.

So how about you, what do you need to have career satisfaction? How does your job measure up?

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Now you’ve been shortlisted – My 3rd book

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 At a time when jobs are scarce and competition is fierce, standing out at interview is more important than ever. Award-winning psychologist Denise Taylor’s new book is for anyone that has received a ‘you’ve been shortlisted’ letter and wants to feel more confident and prepared for their forthcoming interview.
 
 “Too often when I’m recruiting people, at all levels, they fail to do themselves justice: they don’t give specific answers to questions and stick to the general and vague. It can be even worse at assessment centres, where some candidates really understand how to portray themselves and tackle the exercises, and others miss out on their ideal job for want of knowing what to do. In my new book, I’ve used my 20+ years of experience to give you the knowledge to be successful.”  Denise Taylor, February 2010
 

 ’Denise Taylor’s new book `Shortlisted’ provides any job seeker the know-how and outlook necessary to win over potential employers upon reaching the crucial interview stage. As a recent graduate myself, it is common knowledge that once you have been able to secure this all-important interview, the most challenging aspect is being able to dazzle the panel. As we all know this is not as easy as it looks! Denise’s expert advice and multitude of experience enables you to do just this and covers all potential areas that an interviewee might encounter at this stage. A hugely worthwhile investment!’

You can read more on Amazon using this link http://bit.ly/cmXRHc. The book is available from all good book stores or buy direct from my publisher for £10 to include P&P - http://www.harriman-house.com/clients

 



Article 2: Confessions of an introvert

It’s an extrovert world.  This is hard for those of us who are more introverted by nature.

Extroversion and Introversion are two of the scales from the Myers Briggs Type indicator, these words are so well known that they are used in everyday life. Extroverts are people who are energized by other people and are seen as friendly and easy to get to know and people often know a lot about what they are thinking and feeling.  They tend to act first and think about it afterwards.  Introverts on the other hand get their energy from within and are often seen as reserved and harder to get to know. they are less likely to share thoughts and feelings and often take a long time thinking about what they are going to do and perhaps can miss out on something.

I’ve recently worked with a client who is quite introverted by nature but feels she should ‘act as an extrovert’.  Many of us that are introverted feel that we need to change our behaviour to fit in with more extroverted people but if we act out of type this can be quite stressful for us.

When I was young I was very shy and quiet, people used to say ‘Denise is deep’, I don’t think I was but if I couldn’t think of something relevant to say I’d rather say nothing.  Later I’d have some great thoughts, but it was too late by then.

That’s what often happens with Introverts – we don’t always think of an immediate response, and even if we do we can be a bit unsure if we should speak up or not. Sometimes we have chosen right, but most of the time we realise that we should have spoken, particularly when someone else says what we had thought of saying.

What I learnt to do was to think in advance what was likely to be discussed, even better if I got a well laid out agenda. Over time I also got a bit more assertive in making my comments, particularly as I developed an expertise in an area but I’d often introduce my view with a comment like

‘I’m not sure if this is exactly right, but I was thinking we  could …’

It also helps if you know about the topic, so sometimes it works best if you have some background knowledge, perhaps by being seen as an expert in a particular area.

It can also help if you let other people know how to get the best out of working with an introvert – I run team building events based on the MBTI and this helps as people understand what it is like to be themselves and also how they differ from other people and find out more about what it is like to not be you.

So as Introverts, when working with extroverts we can enhance the relationship by coming over as someone with a bit more energy and enthusiasm and be willing to speak up more. 

Extroverts  can help get the best out of us as introverts by letting us know in advance what will be discussed, and ideally sending out written material in advance for pre reading.  They can also allow us time to respond and ask questions to draw us out.  If we want to discuss things on a one to one basis to again give advance notice of what is to be discussed and to allow us time to come back with our considered reply.

Another area that we, as Introverts can struggle is at parties and networking events. I’ll cover this in part two of this article.

 

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This past month I’ve set up a business page on Face Book. I’ve got my personal Face Book account, but thought it was time to separate business from personal stuff. This has been really new to me – learning how to do it, and thinking what I can do to be helpful for my ‘fans.' I'm now at 58 fans and when I reach 100 fans one person will get a signed copy of one of my books.

 

 

In the Media in February

Radio Leeds: 15 February, 2010 on Shourjo Sarkar's Show discussing Now you've been shortlisted

Cosmopolitan - Quoted in the March issue p223 - 5 reasons you're not getting promoted, they have used my comments under point 5 - about being your own publicist at work

Woman & Home, my client Christine is featured in the March edition, page 72 with quotes from me.

Plus 2 podcasts to go on The Guardian career pages, I'll tell you when they are uploaded via my Facebook and Twitter pages.

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Denise answering questions about Interviews online with Guardian Careers

Join me online on Thursday 4th March with Guardian Careers for an online Q&A on Interviews between 1pm and 4pm. Read more here: http://bit.ly/cFYGou

 

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Here are a few of my interesting tweets - why not check them out? And why not 'follow me' on twitter or book mark this link so you can keep up to date with interesting short links

http://twitter.com/amazingpeople

  • 'Life is what happens while you're busy making other plans' John Lennon
  • Interested in getting a job on TV? - possible brilliant opp at the BBC http://bit.ly/9P1eO8
  • Listening to Boy of Girl, http://www.myspace.com/boyofgirl hot Chocolate Boy is amazing
  • Brilliant blog posting - why you should never get a job http://bit.ly/atc7Tc
  • The more I practice, the luckier I get, Jack Nicklaus
  • Client session with a career coach, she was unmotivated, now has her mojo back!
  • RT @ThisIsSethsBlog Seth's Blog: The hidden power of a gift http://bit.ly/97hluj
 

What Denise did last month

  • Did 2 days assessing for The Cabinet Office. I'm a Fast Stream Assessor
  • Undertook 43 client sessions, including , assessment feedback and taking clients through career programmes and interview coaching with 5 clients
  • Wrote 17 entries on my blog
  • Wrote lots of Tweets
  • Set up a Face Book page
  • Met with a Kerry Eustace from The Guardian and recorded a couple of pod casts on interviews and assessment centres

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Here's a selection from what was on the Blog in February

 


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